How do you deal with a midlife crisis and the feeling that your missing out on life?

try to broaden your circle of friends,hang out sometimes,spend time to pamper your self and i truly dont believe that after 35years of marriage you didnt feel any love for your husband,what kept you together for those years anyway if not love even a little?focus on your husband,look for his good points it might help to make your flame of love towards him burn again.