How do you feel after your wedding?

Its such a build up for the big day.. stressfull...planning... family etc. After the day has come and gone...do you feel empty? weird? I think it would be odd to not be constantly obessing about what centerpieces would look best etc. How soon after the wedding did u go back to "real life"? work or school? Does a honeymoon solidify things? what if i took the honey moon a few months later instead..would that feel weird? I just want to know what its like